Rasulullah SAW shallallahu'alaihi never hit anything with his hands, not his wife or his aides. He only hit when the fight in Allah. (Narrated by Muslim, 2328). This is also can be applied in educating your child. If you want to correct behavior or by using encouragement and motivation. If these words are either no effect, we use reprimands and threats according to the child's fault. If this is not useful as well, then you can take the punishment that are educating children in accordance with the conditions of nature. Do not use physical punishment against children, because corporal punishment (hitting) will only damage the child mentally. If forced to use a blow, hit them occasionally, do not do the beating continuously.
There are several ways to educate children well and according to the Shari'a
1. You simply with eye cues to punish and reprimand. This eye cues provide a strong influence on him and stop the cause of the mistake he did.
2. Turned away from the child when the child makes a mistake, Insya Allah, the child will immediately understand your point and stop from his mistakes.
3. Use good words when reprimanding a child error
4. When the child does not want to be conscious but with hard punches and abuse. So for kids like this type, we do apply a beating and loud. However, according to need and not just make it a habit. Just as a doctor who gave him an injection to the patient although it was painful injections but the injections were limited to levels of disease course. You must remember, Islam permits be harsh to the child's parents (hit) if the child is lazy to worship.
As the amplifier about this problem, let us study about the dangers of punishing a child by force. Canadian researchers examined the relationship between psychological disorders with a punch, but not including other physical or sexual abuse because it is limited to measuring the impact of physical punishment alone. People who get a punch or a slap as a child at risk of mental disorders have higher when adults, including mood, anxiety disorders, as well as alcohol and drug abuse. People who are beaten or slapped around age two to seven years more at risk of mental problems later in life, said the results of the study in the journal Pediatrics, is based on a retrospective survey of more than 600 U.S. adults.
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