Muslims would have understood that fasting in Ramadan, there are three things that must be avoided when the fasting. They are eating, drinking and sex with the wife during the day. If it is in broken, then that person has failed to carry out the fast. Especially for jima (having sex with his wife) at noon. According to Islamic law, there is serious threat given for Muslim husband and wife that having sex during the day in Ramadan. His doubt is replaced by fasting for two consecutive months. That is, if that happens then there goes the chance of the husband and wife is to get the reward of Allah abundantly provided through practice and worship during Ramadan.
Then, if the entire month we were not allowed to have sex? The answer is "NO". Islam is the the most tolerant religion in the world. Islam was never burdensome to carry out all his time in activities, whether related to worship or muamalah. Increase in sexual desire during Ramadan than other month, it is generally recognized, as the favors of Allah that can still be felt in the evening. Especially for married couples who are hoping given the child's offspring. In the month of Ramadan prayer will be granted, but certainly not just pray alone, efforts must still be done.
For couples who are married, sexual activity has become a liability. Sexual activity between couples legally married is worship. These activities must be done after the break. In the history of the Hadith, there is a blessing for the wife expressed a desire to serve her husband enjoying sex at night. '' To a man invites his wife to sleep with, in his bed, and his wife refused, until the night of mad husband, angels curse the wife until the morning.'' (Narrated by Bukhari, Muslim). So, do not have patience to do it in the daytime during Ramadan, fasting is done in order to get the pleasure of Allah as believers who fear Him.
This is where the word "blessing" finding context. By keeping the principles of Islamic Shari'a in relation to the ethics of conjugal sex, sex blessings will envelop the couple themselves. Blessing in itself, as stated by the scholars, is increasing goodness and peace.
Thus, the blessed beautiful sex, is sex to uphold the principles of Islamic Sharia without being stiff (rigid) in its implementation, so that marital sex is not only wonderful, but also full of grace, in which sexual relations will be amplifier for the husband and wife, creator of harmony, peace of mind and seedsman in the household. May all our worship in the month of Ramadan to be a blessing Amiin
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